Okay...those of you who've known me for a while know of Aaron a.k.a. the Hydro Hottie...
The field trip this weekend was very very odd...and I need advice on what the fuck is going on with him...
Background info....
Aaron is 23, 6'8" about 375lbs...frosted blond hair...preppy clothes...
During the weekend, we learned that Aaron has a completely colour coordinated bathroom...down to the matching palm tree shower curtain holders...two loofahs...one that stays at home...and one that he takes with him travelling...he brings a minimum of three colognes with him.
He'd been making all kinds of flirting comments and comments filled with sexual innuendo...
Last night (Saturday), he'd made several comments that were borderline hitting on me/sexually harrassing me.
I left the party...(we had three hotel rooms for our group, one for Rachel, then two for six guys). We were all drinking and partying in Rachel's room and after Aaron's comments got out of hand, I left and went back to my room.
About 12:30, Aaron comes in and asks me about Alex (my ex from Australia) and how the relationship went and the details of travelling over there and all that. I told him that I really didn't want to talk about the relationship, but that the trip was great.
He kept going back to Alex and our relationship and how we broke up and all that...and was asking if I was seeing anybody.
By this point I was started to get really nervous. I had/have no idea what the hell he's up to with this but I knew I didn't like it. He's all smiling and stuff, asking about dating and what kind of guys I like, what my favorite date was and why...
Now mind you, he spent a good deal of Thursday night telling me how wonderful his girlfriend is and how she's "the one" and he thinks he's found his soulmate.
I'm totally on edge...thinking I'm being led into something...like harrassment/rape charges or something like that...
Brian, one of our other classmates comes in (he's in the same room as me), and suddenly Aaron's up and saying he's gotta leave since it's getting late and we have to get up early in the morning (it's now about 1:30am....we were scheduled to leave at 6am), and within two minutes, he's gone.
Was he totally hitting on me? Just trying to sincerely find out more about me? Asking one of the gay people he knows about gay life? Or was he just looking for a quick blowjob to get his rocks off?
I'm confused, somewhat nervous, and totally not sure how to deal with him...
Any advice, ideas, suggestions?
2 comments:
well what type of person is this guy? in general, is he the type that you get a weird vibe as in not to trust him or what?
It sounds to me like the guy was hitting on you. Now whether he wanted the result of that hitting on you to be a quick blowjob or something more is probably only something he knows. I think what needs to be done now is just honestly talk to him about what is going on. Asking him "why all the questions?" isn't going to get you into any trouble harrasment-wise, but if you feel like opening that door may lead to something in the "harrassment realm" then have a trusted third party present when you go about all this (even if its to protect you from completely false accusations after the fact) This could get messy, so if you want to avoid all this then just cut the guy out of your life as much as possible. I hope at least some of this might help as I think I may have come into the history of the situation a little late. ;)
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